Introduction of On Time
Time is something that we can not grasp or we feel its presence , just like
love , we can not touch or we touch but can we rasakanakibatnya in our lives.
Time is something that has absolute law and can not bargain anymore ,
because time does not belong to man but belong to the creator .
Time is something that dibertikan god to us so that we can use it well and
we manage it wisely because it is very limited .
The following how time management :
A. Determine the purpose of life
This objective relates to what you believe as things that must be achieved
in your life . In other words , if the mission was a big goal of your life ,
then the goal is merrupakan small targets at once apparent to you .
Objectives should have the following five characteristics :
1. Specific (specific , clear, unambiguous )
2. Measurable (measurable )
3. Achievable ( attainable , in capacity )
4. Realistic ( no float - Ngawang )
5. Time -bound ( no target time )
B. Write Destinations
Many people have a lot of interest, but when asked what the heck goals never came into her head, then they say: "do not know", or "forgotten". If it were so the purpose is no longer in accordance with intrinsically binding, but merely wishful thinking fast drift.
therefore write down your goals. Because the purpose of writing can be made as a control tool so that you avoid aimless activities that often undermine your valuable time.
C. Priorities Set Your Goals
Make a priority order with reference to the following order:
1. Important and Urgent
2. It is important but not urgent
3. Not important but urgent
4. Not important and not urgent
D. Six Important Field of Life
Life is not just to work and earn money. Life does not just spend days at home with family. Moreover, life is not all play. in fact there are six important areas of life, namely:
1. Spiritual
Prayer, pray, go to church, do social work on a regular basis is part of spiritual activity. For things like this is the time management are essential. There are three rules that can be applied to set the time in the spiritual field, namely:
a. Must be a priority
Make sure that you counts the number one priority for this case. Before creating a schedule for other activities, you must first create a schedule for spiritual activities. let another schedule to follow.
b. special time
There should be a special time for your spiritual activities. When should to a place of worship, so go to a place of worship. do not actually do the rest. spiritual problem involves a commitment.
c. Do not damage other activities
Although a priority, does not mean the schedule for spiritual activities damaging to schedule other activities. Not a good move if you actually read the scriptures in the middle of busy work so neglect the grace period (deadline) that have been defined.
2. Health
If you steady spiritually, then you also will look at other fields correctly, especially about health. Health is the most precious treasure. The sick people can not do much. Therefore there should be a special time for health anda.Olahraga regularly and eating a healthy diet is highly recommended. Health is also a lot to do with the mind and psyche (psychosomatic). That means always thinking only things that are right and positive.
The first thing is olahraga.Disesuaikan with your busy schedule, you should spend some time at least 15 minutes to do plahraga light. It was the most minimal.
3. Family
Time for the family should occupy an important portion. Although it remains to be balanced with other areas of life, but the family should receive top priority. You can lose your job but it does not sebanfing with the loss of family.
There are several schedules for a family is absolutely crucial, namely:
a. Time gather together
When having breakfast or dinner, the family should gather together. when it could be used to communicate and strengthen relationships.
b. Time outing
Every weekend, or at least once a year, there should be outings with the whole family. Sightseeing is always pleasant and certainly familiarizing all relationships.
c. Special time husband and wife
Husbands and wives need to spend some special time together. Not just at night on a regular day, but better on a certain day without interruption others.
d. Special time parents and children
Whether it's homework for a child, or a serious talk with them, parents should spend some special time with her children. At that time educational value investment can take place.
4. finasial
Money is important, but we must be careful not to get stuck into mammonisme, namely a anggapa that money is the most important in life that encourages us to ignore other aspects. And now a lot of people glorifying money and already sepert idols. Precautions against the idolatry of money does not mean an anti-money attitude. It does not make sense to go back to the days of barter when the goods exchanged for goods and do not need the money in our lives as though no money everything is fine. The right attitude is to take the middle path. lest we become slaves of money and lose it all just for the money. Better, make money our friends to achieve noble goals.
5. Work
As the changing times, more diverse and complex job. Work is now associated with the ability of Intellectual (thinking) and professionalism (attitudes and values). This means that there are elements of technical and non-technical elements. Technical elements related to the expertise that can be obtained by studying, whereas non-technical element is the attitude, work ethic must be based on the values of one's life.
For technical, the key word is learned. No longer just a term studying in school and after that you are working alone. While it works, you still have to learn and keep learning.
On the non-technical side, again we have to look at aspects of the spirituality of pekrjaan. Work is not just about doing something and then get paid. Works that brings satisfaction, both for myself and others. Therefore, there should be a special time to continue to improve (update) your membership at any time.
6. Social
Humans are essentially social beings who can not live alone without help from others. Look around it will show there are people a lot of friends but there is also ostensibly not have any friend of a friend. It's all about choice. one uses a lot wkatu to know new people, make friends, and keeping in touch with other people, while the other tends to be closed and preoccupied with oneself.
Remember, social relationships are flexible and can not be timely. You had to be strict about this time because everything has to be balanced with more field time. Because it is necessary to develop techniques and tactics are clean so that we can avoid the trap of the association that is a waste of time. Social life is important but it's not the only part of your life.
Many people have a lot of interest, but when asked what the heck goals never came into her head, then they say: "do not know", or "forgotten". If it were so the purpose is no longer in accordance with intrinsically binding, but merely wishful thinking fast drift.
therefore write down your goals. Because the purpose of writing can be made as a control tool so that you avoid aimless activities that often undermine your valuable time.
C. Priorities Set Your Goals
Make a priority order with reference to the following order:
1. Important and Urgent
2. It is important but not urgent
3. Not important but urgent
4. Not important and not urgent
D. Six Important Field of Life
Life is not just to work and earn money. Life does not just spend days at home with family. Moreover, life is not all play. in fact there are six important areas of life, namely:
1. Spiritual
Prayer, pray, go to church, do social work on a regular basis is part of spiritual activity. For things like this is the time management are essential. There are three rules that can be applied to set the time in the spiritual field, namely:
a. Must be a priority
Make sure that you counts the number one priority for this case. Before creating a schedule for other activities, you must first create a schedule for spiritual activities. let another schedule to follow.
b. special time
There should be a special time for your spiritual activities. When should to a place of worship, so go to a place of worship. do not actually do the rest. spiritual problem involves a commitment.
c. Do not damage other activities
Although a priority, does not mean the schedule for spiritual activities damaging to schedule other activities. Not a good move if you actually read the scriptures in the middle of busy work so neglect the grace period (deadline) that have been defined.
2. Health
If you steady spiritually, then you also will look at other fields correctly, especially about health. Health is the most precious treasure. The sick people can not do much. Therefore there should be a special time for health anda.Olahraga regularly and eating a healthy diet is highly recommended. Health is also a lot to do with the mind and psyche (psychosomatic). That means always thinking only things that are right and positive.
The first thing is olahraga.Disesuaikan with your busy schedule, you should spend some time at least 15 minutes to do plahraga light. It was the most minimal.
3. Family
Time for the family should occupy an important portion. Although it remains to be balanced with other areas of life, but the family should receive top priority. You can lose your job but it does not sebanfing with the loss of family.
There are several schedules for a family is absolutely crucial, namely:
a. Time gather together
When having breakfast or dinner, the family should gather together. when it could be used to communicate and strengthen relationships.
b. Time outing
Every weekend, or at least once a year, there should be outings with the whole family. Sightseeing is always pleasant and certainly familiarizing all relationships.
c. Special time husband and wife
Husbands and wives need to spend some special time together. Not just at night on a regular day, but better on a certain day without interruption others.
d. Special time parents and children
Whether it's homework for a child, or a serious talk with them, parents should spend some special time with her children. At that time educational value investment can take place.
4. finasial
Money is important, but we must be careful not to get stuck into mammonisme, namely a anggapa that money is the most important in life that encourages us to ignore other aspects. And now a lot of people glorifying money and already sepert idols. Precautions against the idolatry of money does not mean an anti-money attitude. It does not make sense to go back to the days of barter when the goods exchanged for goods and do not need the money in our lives as though no money everything is fine. The right attitude is to take the middle path. lest we become slaves of money and lose it all just for the money. Better, make money our friends to achieve noble goals.
5. Work
As the changing times, more diverse and complex job. Work is now associated with the ability of Intellectual (thinking) and professionalism (attitudes and values). This means that there are elements of technical and non-technical elements. Technical elements related to the expertise that can be obtained by studying, whereas non-technical element is the attitude, work ethic must be based on the values of one's life.
For technical, the key word is learned. No longer just a term studying in school and after that you are working alone. While it works, you still have to learn and keep learning.
On the non-technical side, again we have to look at aspects of the spirituality of pekrjaan. Work is not just about doing something and then get paid. Works that brings satisfaction, both for myself and others. Therefore, there should be a special time to continue to improve (update) your membership at any time.
6. Social
Humans are essentially social beings who can not live alone without help from others. Look around it will show there are people a lot of friends but there is also ostensibly not have any friend of a friend. It's all about choice. one uses a lot wkatu to know new people, make friends, and keeping in touch with other people, while the other tends to be closed and preoccupied with oneself.
Remember, social relationships are flexible and can not be timely. You had to be strict about this time because everything has to be balanced with more field time. Because it is necessary to develop techniques and tactics are clean so that we can avoid the trap of the association that is a waste of time. Social life is important but it's not the only part of your life.
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